Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Humility and Pride

So let's get deep...

I tried to change my life for the better many times. Each time I tried to follow this program or that one. It was very difficult to just dig through the crud and simply start. This last time something different happened. God put someone in my life that had a different starting point. It was humility. This guy simply asked me to write a paper on what humility meant to me.
I must have started that paper a half a dozen times, only to crumble them up and throw them away. Finally I just decided to be completely honest about it. I wrote “I am not God....”

And that's really where it begins. Where it all went wrong.

Then another funny thing happened. I started hearing people left and right say something like “the drugs and alcohol is just a symptom” or “the sex is just a symptom” and other similar statements.
Now I'm a weird person. When I hear things like that the first thing that pops into my mind is: “Then why are we treating the symptom? What is the disease?”
So I turned my inhuman focus on the answer to that simple question. And no one could answer me. Least of all the very ones that were going around saying that it was just the symptom. So I went broader with it. I started asking people in the religious business, and teachers, and doctors, and tinkers and tailors and soldiers and spies. I researched it in books on philosophy and a dozen different religions.
And I figured out what I think the answer is. What is the disease?
Pride.
Now let's not get hung up on the word(s) here. Remember we're talking about a real concept, not defining words. We are not talking about pride as in taking pride in one's work or one's family; being proud of something that you love; or even feeling good and getting satisfaction from praise. These are good things. What I am talking about here is sometimes called “hubris”. But even that falls short of giving the whole picture. This is an immensely huge concept.
In the 12 step programs they call it the selfish, self-centered thing. It is definitely rooted in the self... self-will.
Christianity is the only religion that considers pride a sin. Sure other religions like Buddhism (which is not a real religion... no higher power) may consider it un-enlightened, or an abomination, or something like that. But in a very real way the sin of pride is woven throughout the entire concept of Christianity. From the first sin ever, when Lucifer wanted to exalt himself above God; to the first human sin, when he told Eve that if she ate of the “apple” she would know she was “as God”; the first murder, over and over.
Sin is more about doing things without God then it is doing things against God. And that's pride. Pride is all about thinking we are “God” in ways big and small.
God gets to decide how the world is. Its His world. When the world doesn't go the way we want it, the pain and suffering and depression and expectations and anger and all the stuff we go through is from holding the world to our standard, rather than the creator of the universe's standard.
See whenever we are measuring something, we need something to measure it against. Some standard. And the way the brain works, if there is no standard then we use our own. So built into our vary brains and how they work is a subtle form of pride. That's the slavery of sin.
We do it with God. We use something that is supposed to be a mere vehicle to understanding God, the bible, and very subtly begin to measure God by the standard. He is much bigger. Don't get me wrong, I completely agree that the bible is the Word of God. But that is a very different thing than saying that it is the “words” of God. Jesus is also the Word of God.
But He is so much more and bigger than the bible. To say that God can only be what is found in the bible and nothing more is to make an idol of the bible. Its pride.
The problem is that fear and insecurity creates a need to control things. Sometimes those “things” are knowledge. Its the “Are we there yet?” syndrome that kids have. Like if they don't like the answer they are going to get out of the car. So its our fear and insecurity that drives us to cling to the bible at the expense of allowing God to truly reveal himself to us.
And that has to do with acceptance. Acceptance is a subset of humility. Accepting God for who He is, on His terms, and with no limits or labels or restrictions or standards is a very complete understanding.
Let me give you an example. There's this verse that most Christian's are taught first when they give their life to Christ. It's John 3:16:
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
(I like the King James, if it was good enough for Paul its good enough for you.)
So what we have is the first step in making a slave out of Christian. You have to say the right prayer, or THINK the right thing about Jesus being the Son of God, or even announce it publicly, or something, and then: Poof! You're saved.
Look, every non-Christian in the world sees this for the nonsense it is. It's about time we Christians do too.
Do you know how many Christians I have talked to that have told me this one verse is proof that God's love is conditional? How many are tortured that God doesn't love them unless they do this or that, go to church regularly, learn all they can about the convoluted logic of doctrines or denominations? Does that really sound like someone loving you so much that they would sacrifice their Son for you?
The problem is that the people who tell you this are the ones that want something from you. If its a gift of grace from God, then its free. There is nothing need to be done to get it.
The word believe or belief does not mean the same thing now that it did even 100 yrs ago. Certainly something different than the old English that the King James was written in, and definitely something different than the Koinic Greek that it was translated from. In old English the word is Bea Loef. I don't need to translate that do I? It means “beloved”.
You are already the beloved of Christ. He died for you in a very gruesome way. You already have eternal life.
And so does every Christian, in every denomination. Yes even the Mormons and the Jehovah's Witnesses.
And so does the Muslim and the Buddhists.
And the Wiccans and the Athiests.
Everyone is already saved.
Its the sin of Pride that keeps it us vs. them. So we need to start with humility.

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